DEAR DEIDRE:  MY boyfriend had sex with me, then lay next to me watching porn as I fell asleep – then woke me up to have sex again. Why would he do that to me?

We’ve been together for three years and are in our late twenties. I was thrilled when he woke me to have sex for a second time because I thought it was a sign our sex life was recovering.

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He’s struggled to climax the past few months. I was hurt when he later admitted it was because the porn excited him.

DEIDRE SAYS: Some couples do watch porn together before having sex as a way to get fully aroused but it is a bit of a knife-edge.

Porn tends to get more extreme and can end up deadening sexual responses, making it harder to reach climax.

Ask him to stop watching any porn for three months, say, and see if his responses become more sensitive and your shared sex life any more satisfying for you both.

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