Someone sent me a video of my dad, 50, having sex with a man

DEAR DEIDRE: SOMEONE sent me a video of my dad, who’s 50, having sex with a man.

Now I’m worried for my mum.

When I confronted my dad, he said it was just someone who looked like him.

But eventually he admitted it, then broke down and begged me not to tell Mum.

It will destroy them if this comes out. They’ve been married for 25 years.

But I’m worried he might have given Mum an STI.

I’m a boy of 16. Should I tell her?

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your mum might have an idea that your dad hasn’t been faithful to her or if he has gay feelings.

You can’t know the inner workings of their marriage and, unfortunately, you can’t put things right for them.

Talk to your dad and suggest he gets counselling and has a sexual health check.

My Gay Worries? support pack could help.