DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE been banished by my wife to the “rejection side” of the bed – and I can’t work out why.

We used to have a fantastic sex life, but now when I show her I’m in an amorous mood, she literally shoves me to the edge of the bed and turns away.

I’m 40 and she’s 41. We’ve been married for ten years and have two kids.

I don’t know why she has gone off sex – or how to get her in the mood again.

It doesn’t help that she won’t tell me what the problem is. Being treated like a leper is making me lose all my confidence.

I’m not a selfish lover. I want to give her pleasure too. I’m so sexually frustrated. How can I get our sex life back on track?

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DEIDRE SAYS: It’s not fair of your wife to so forcefully reject your advances but refuse to explain why. Perhaps she’s feeling low, which can lower libido.

Or maybe she might be angry about something.

Pick a moment – but not while you are in bed and wanting to make a move – and say you are worried and want to sort this out.

My support pack, Saving Your Sex Life, should help you find way to tackle this.

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