I am worried my constant desire for reassurance will kill off relationship

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE just started dating, but I’m worried my neediness will ruin any future relationship.

I am a boy aged 17 and had a good first date with a girl my friend introduced me to.

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We’re seeing each other again next week. But because I’m so scared of messing up, I become really needy.

I’m constantly checking my phone for her replies.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Remember, this girl has already been on a date with you and likes you.

But try not to focus solely on this girl and get out to see other friends, spend time with your family and develop your interests.

This will help you establish a healthier approach to dating.