EXCLUSIVE: Sandra Bullock’s ex Jesse James slept with at least 20 women behind the back of his drag racer wife Alexis DeJoria, as the serial cheat begged ladies for sex on Snapchat and sneaked them into his marital home
- Jesse James bedded at least 20 women behind his wife’s back, leaving his seven year marriage to drag racer Alexis DeJoria in tatters, sources tell DailyMail.com
- Sandra Bullock’s ex scoured dating sites for casual hook ups and sent racy messages begging women for sex on Snapchat, Instagram and Facebook
- The West Coast Choppers founder would sneak his mistresses into the marital home in Austin, Texas for sex while his wife was away, sources claim
- The reality star, 50, would turn aggressive when confronted by his wife, was ‘mentally and emotionally abusive’ and turned their marriage ‘toxic’, a friend close to Alexis told DailyMail.com
- They said: ‘Alexis feels humiliated and disrespected. Jesse has been cheating on her since they first met, it never stopped, she’s now realizing just how bad it was’
- James announced the split from his wife on Instagram
- Alexis, 42, first discovered his infidelity two years ago, but he always denied it
Serial love cheat Jesse James bedded at least 20 women behind his wife’s back, leaving his seven year marriage to champion drag racer Alexis DeJoria in tatters, sources tell DailyMail.com.
Jesse, who announced the split from his wife in late March, scoured dating sites for casual hook ups and sent racy messages begging women for sex on Snapchat, Instagram and Facebook, as well as messaging app Voxer.
DailyMail.com is told the West Coast Choppers founder would sneak his mistresses into the marital home in Austin, Texas for sex while his wife was away on race meets or at family functions.
Other women would fly in to Austin and hook up with Jesse in hotel rooms in the city.
And the reality star, 50, would turn aggressive when confronted by his suspicious wife, was ‘mentally and emotionally abusive’ and turned their marriage ‘toxic’, a friend close to Alexis told DailyMail.com.
Serial love cheat Jesse James bedded at least 20 women behind his wife’s back, leaving his seven year marriage to champion drag racer Alexis DeJoria in tatters, DailyMail.com can reveal
Sandra Bullock’s ex scoured dating sites for casual hook ups and sent racy messages begging women for sex on Snapchat, Instagram and Facebook. Pictured: James sent a racy photo to a woman
The friend said: ‘Alexis feels humiliated and disrespected. Jesse has been cheating on her since they first met, it never stopped, she’s only now realizing just how bad it was.’ Pictured: Messages Jesse exchanged with a woman in 2012 – two months after meeting Alexis
Alexis first began to get suspicious of Jesse when random women began to pop up either at his gun shop or on social media over the years. Pictured: James messaging a woman in 2016, saying he had a ‘good’ ‘crazy dream’ about her, before giving her his new cell phone number
The friend said: ‘Alexis feels humiliated and disrespected. Jesse has been cheating on her since they first met, it never stopped, she’s only now realizing just how bad it was.’
‘She tried to save the marriage but Jesse wasn’t interested, he would never come clean.’
The serial cheater declined to comment when contacted by DailyMail.com.
He announced the split from Alexis on March 17, posting a lengthy statement and photos from happier times on his Instagram profile.
James, who was previously married to Hollywood star Sandra Bullock before a cheating scandal erupted, wrote: ‘I know a lot of you have been asking if I will be attending the NHRA races this year to work on Alexis’ funny car.
‘Its (sic) with an incredible amount of sadness to let you know Alexis and I have decided to end our marriage. We spent close to seven amazing years together.
‘Working on her race car for five of those years was one of the highlights of my life. Also a highlight was trying my best to be a good dad to her daughter.
‘Something that will leave a huge hole in my heart forever. Unfortunately at the end of the day our lives were just headed in different directions.
‘Creating a distance that was insurmountable. I wish her the absolute best in her racing and life. I hope you can respect our privacy in this tough time. Thank you. #jessejames.’
Jesse announced the split from Alexis on March 17, posting a lengthy statement and photos from happier times on his Instagram profile. He wrote: ‘Something that will leave a huge hole in my heart forever. Unfortunately at the end of the day our lives were just headed in different directions’
But the friend said Jesse’s statement infuriated his estranged wife.
‘It really upset Alexis that Jesse would put this bulls**t statement out claiming they split because they were heading in different directions, the friend said.
‘He said they had seven amazing years, yet he cheated on her for most of that time and was extremely emotionally abusive.
‘He’s right, the distance between them was insurmountable – but only because he’d been sleeping with other women behind her back and would never admit he had a problem.
‘The only reason the marriage fell apart is because of Jesse’s cheating, plain and simple.’
Alexis, 42, first discovered his infidelity two years ago, the friend explained, but he always denied it.
They even went to marriage counseling but he refused to open up.
‘She discovered he was bringing women into their home in Austin, sleeping in their bed,’ the friend said.
‘She was upset and devastated, it knocked her confidence. Jesse turned out to be not the man she thought she knew.’
Alexis first began to get suspicious of Jesse when random women began to pop up either at his gun shop or on social media over the years.
‘Alexis is very intuitive and him having the past that he did, she became curious,’ the friend said.
‘But any time she would ask him about it, he would be horribly defensive and aggressive and make her feel like an a**hole for even asking.’
Alexis, 42, first discovered his infidelity two years ago, the friend explained, but he always denied it. They even went to marriage counseling but he refused to open up
Pictured: Jesse on a dating app, using the username ‘Never Hadone’
More information came to light when another woman contacted Alexis later in 2017. The woman called Debra said Jesse had reached out to her on dating site Badoo. She he revealed Jesse cheated on her as early as November, 2012, two months after they met, having sex with Debra the night before he proposed. In messages seen by DailyMail.com Debra said he wanted her to be his sex slave and described how he would tie her up and spank her
In an exchange with another woman in 2016, James made sexual comments to her, saying he wanted to try something ‘on her a**’
Jesse’s womanizing first came to light, however, when a woman called Myla Harris contacted Alexis’ mother and sister in 2017, writing to them on social media and sending screen shots of racy messages she had exchanged with Jesse.
Hairstylist Harris then did an expose with InTouch magazine revealing that for three months she and Jesse exchanged a series messages over social media, including several referencing specific sex acts.
Jesse was also accused of repeatedly inviting her to the Texas home he shares with Alexis, although she never took him up on the offer and they never had sex.
‘At the time Alexis had just fractured her hip in a racing accident so was feeling low,’ the friend said.
‘She was going through a hard time and having physical therapy.
‘It turns out Jesse was messaging this woman and trying to get her to come over to the house to f**k him, and the kids were there.
‘But then the conversation switched to Snapchat.’
Alexis later learned he would always filter his women to Snapchat because he knew the messages disappear.
The friend continued: ‘Alexis confronted him about it and he seemed very remorseful, ”Oh, I’m sorry, nothing happened. She didn’t come over after all, it won’t happen again,” but he was like, I’m really down and depressed.’
But soon more information came to light when another woman contacted Alexis later in 2017.
The woman called Debra said Jesse had reached out to her on dating site Badoo, using the handle ‘neverhadone’.
The friend said: ‘He had sex with Debra the night before he flew out to California and asked Alexis’ dad to marry her and then proposed. The woman later contacted Alexis and told her everything. She even sent a photo Jesse had sent her of him half naked wearing just a towel.’ Pictured: Debra dishing about her affair with Jesse
Alexis later learned he would always filter his women to Snapchat because he knew the messages disappear (pictured)
Shockingly, she revealed Jesse cheated on her as early as November, 2012, two months after they met, having sex with Debra the night before he proposed.
In messages seen by DailyMail.com Debra said he wanted her to be his sex slave and described how he would tie her up and spank her.
The friend said: ‘He had sex with Debra the night before he flew out to California and asked Alexis’ dad to marry her and then proposed.
‘The woman later contacted Alexis and told her everything. She even sent a photo Jesse had sent her of him half naked wearing just a towel.
‘Debra had apparently sold a car to Jesse which he gave to Alexis as a gift and she had a photo of a bunch of cash thrown out on a bed that she took while they were together.
‘Alexis immediately recognized the sheets as they were the ones her mother bought her and Jesse, you can’t lie about that,’ the friend said.
‘Alexis was a professional race car driver and she was juggling her job and being away a lot with being a good mom and good wife.
‘She now feels completely humiliated, she realizes he’s been unfaithful for their entire marriage.’
The friend said Alexis soon did some sleuthing of her own to find more evidence of her husband’s infidelity.
One night Jesse left his computer on in their home office so Alexis decided to go through it.
When Alexis first confronted Jesse about his cheating in 2017 he bluntly denied it. Alexis produced the proof she had found but all Jesse said was that he shouldn’t have married a famous drag racer
Jesse first met Alexis in September, 2012 at a race after being introduced to her by her father who he was friends with. Jesse proposed two months later and they tied the knot in March, 2013. She’s expecting to return to competitive drag racing this year with a new team led by crew chiefs Del Worsham and Nicky Boninfante
‘He opened the door for her and she dove in, and she went through his emails and his messenger, everything,’ the friend said.
‘She was shocked by what she found, Jesse had been talking inappropriately to at least 30 women and the women were sending him naked photos and they discussed hook up spots.
‘She believes he hooked up with at least 20 of them, although she can’t be sure of the exact number.’
DailyMail.com has seen several messages between Jesse and the women he contacted.
‘He always did the same thing, once he started a conversation he switched them to Snapchat, so who knows how far things went with some of them.’
The friend added: ‘He was using these gross dating sites, just having like sloppy sex with all these different women. It was desperate, like he was seeking validation from them.’
The friend said Jesse’s philandering was so prolific he even reached out to women he had slept with years before during previous broken relationships.
‘He was speaking to women who he cheated with when he was with Kat Von D,’ the friend said.
In September, 2011 L.A. Ink star Kat split from fiance Jesse after discovering he was cheating.
The friend said Jesse’s philandering was so prolific he even reached out to women he had slept with years before during previous broken relationships. ‘He was speaking to women who he cheated with when he was with Kat Von D (left),’ the friend said. In September, 2011 L.A. Ink star Kat split from fiance Jesse after discovering he was cheating. Jesse’s business – and his personal reputation – came crashing down in March 2010 after several women came forward claiming to having had affairs with Jesse. At the time, Jesse was married to his third wife, Oscar winning actress Sandra Bullock (together right), whom he married in 2005
She then took to Facebook in November that year to reveal he had in fact cheated on her with 19 women in total.
Alexis’ friend said: ‘Jesse just doesn’t care who he hurts, he thinks he’s so righteous, so untouchable. He claims to be a Christian man and goes to church every Sunday, he’s a hypocrite.’
When Alexis first confronted Jesse about his cheating in 2017, he bluntly denied it.
Alexis produced the proof she had found but all Jesse said was that he shouldn’t have married a famous drag racer.
The friend recalled: ‘Alexis was upset. He said to her, ”I knew you were too popular, too many people knew who you were and that’s why all these crazies have come out”, he actually blamed Alexis for being well known because it meant these girls wanted to come out and say something instead of keeping their mouth shut.’
Jesse first met Alexis in September, 2012 at a race after being introduced to her by her father who he was friends with.
Jesse proposed two months later and they tied the knot in March, 2013.
The marriage made Jesse a stepfather to Alexis’ now 17-year-old daughter, Isabella DeJoria, while Jesse also had his 16-year-old daughter Sunny living with him.
At first the couple were madly in love and planned a future together.
Speaking about Alexis in an exclusive interview with DailyMail.com in 2017, Jesse said: ‘It’s just a different deal this time… We like the same stuff, the same music, the same everything.’
Another source close to the couple said the relationship was great at first.
Because of her love for Jesse, Alexis decided not to run away when their marriage first began to hit the rocks in 2017. Instead she decided to give her husband a second chance. She made the difficult decision to quit racing at the end of 2017 to be at home more to make their relationship and family unit work
‘Her daughter Isabella needed a father and Jesse’s daughter Sunny needed a mother, it was the perfect match,’ the source said.
‘He was was a nice guy, successful and everybody loved him, he was fun to be around, she loved the guy.
‘Alexis had some really tough times in her life, when she was younger, so she didn’t hold any of his past mistakes against him.
Because of her love for Jesse, Alexis decided not to run away when their marriage first began to hit the rocks in 2017.
Instead she decided to give her husband a second chance.
She made the difficult decision to quit racing at the end of 2017 to be at home more to make their relationship and family unit work.
Jesse continued his wayward ways and repeatedly pulled out of Alexis’ family get togethers at the last minute saying he had to work.
The friend added: ‘He’s 51 next month and he’s still doing the same thing, but he’s not only hurting himself, he’s hurting his family, his daughters, his wife and his wife’s family.’
Alexis is the daughter of billionaire entrepreneur John Paul DeJoria, co-founder of the Paul Mitchell hair care products line and Patron Spirits Company.
The friend said Jesse owes his father-in-law $1 million – money he was loaned to start his gun company JJFU in Austin.
Despite hours of therapy and Alexis giving up racing, for Jesse it still wasn’t good enough.
‘He was extremely mentally and emotionally abusive. He was also a misogynist, incredibly degrading to women,’ the friend said.
The friend revealed that Alexis had left the marriage for two months earlier in 2019 but took Jesse back to give him another chance.
But the tension in the relationship culminated five days before Christmas last year when the warring couple had a blazing row and Jesse kicked Alexis and her daughter out of the marital home.
Alexis is the daughter of billionaire entrepreneur John Paul DeJoria (pictured), co-founder of the Paul Mitchell hair care products line and Patron Spirits Company. The friend said Jesse owes his father-in-law $1 million – money he was loaned to start his gun company JJFU in Austin
‘In the end Alexis gave in, she knew there was no going back after that. The bottom line is, marriage is a partnership, not a dictatorship, and Jesse wouldn’t fight for their relationship,’ the friend said.
‘But she still loves him very much and wants him to get proper therapy, not for her but for the sake of his children.’
Alexis and her teenage daughter moved in with her father for a couple of months at the beginning of the year but now has her own place in downtown Austin.
She’s expecting to return to competitive drag racing this year with a new team led by crew chiefs Del Worsham and Nicky Boninfante.
Jesse founded West Coast Choppers in California in 1989, which would go on to become a multi-million dollar enterprise – given a boost via a reality TV show named Monster Garage that made its debut in June 2002.
From there he expanded into further TV work – appearing in the Discovery Channel’s Sons of Guns, Jesse James is a Dead Man, American Chopper and Jesse James: Outlaw Garage.
But Jesse’s business – and his personal reputation – came crashing down in March 2010 after several women came forward claiming to having had affairs with Jesse.
At the time, Jesse was married to his third wife, Oscar winning actress Sandra Bullock, whom he married in 2005.
Prior to that, he had been married to Karla James between 1991 and 2002 with whom he had two children, and porn actress Janine Lindemulder from 2002-2004, with whom he had his youngest daughter Sunny.
In April 2010, Jesse checked himself into a rehab facility in Arizona for sex addiction after apologizing profusely to Bullock, although that wasn’t enough to save the marriage – they divorced the following June.
Jesse remains at the helm of West Coast Choppers as well as Jesse James Firearms Unlimited in Austin, Texas Hot Rods and, most recently, NRA Originals.
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