My husband spends every payday getting drunk at the pub after work with his mates

DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS thrilled when my husband started working again after being off with stress for three years.

Now he spends every payday getting drunk at the pub after work with his mates.

We’re in our 30s with two young children.

One Friday my mum said she’d look after the kids so I went down the pub to meet him.

I thought he’d be happy to see me but he was busy talking to some woman about what sex positions she likes – and feeding her crisps from his bag.

I was furious as I’ve supported him for three tough years.

I confronted him later. He said it was just banter but he’s still getting drunk every payday.

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DEIDRE SAYS: He’s behaving irresponsibly but he may be reacting to the stress of getting back to work.

Pick a time when he’s sober and not hungover.

Point out that you stuck with him through three tough years and he’s being unfair to you and your children.

Make payday evenings a special celebration at home for the two of you. You both deserve it.

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