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DEAR DEIDRE: I CAUGHT my boyfriend sending his mate screenshots from OnlyFans and rating the women out of ten.

He has always told me he hates sites like that because they are degrading to women, but that’s obviously not true.


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I am 23, he is 25 and we have been together for two years.

I’ve never looked through his phone before, but a gut feeling told me to.

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The messages were gross, with both describing what they would like to do with these women.

While I believe he wouldn’t cheat, it hurts knowing he has been talking like this behind my back.

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DEIDRE SAYS: This may have just been “lad chat”, with both boys trying to say things to impress the other.

But it’s still disrespectful and upsetting to see.

Keeping this to yourself won’t help your relationship. Best to talk it through and explain how hurt you feel.

He is unlikely to be happy to discover you went through his phone, however.

My support pack Relationship MOT has tips on how to get back on track and improve the trust.

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