A PROFESSIONAL mistress has revealed the top reasons she believes men are unfaithful – and how their partners can avoid them coming to her.

Amy Kupps, 33, from North Carolina, dates married men and says she hears the same complaints from her lovers – and believes there are sure-fire ways to avoid any extramarital relations.

According to the former teacher, it all comes down to bringing more excitement to the bedroom.

“Your partner is guaranteed to stay if you fulfil their sexual fantasies,” Amy said.

“Pleasuring your partner frequently and often is key.

“You need to watch adult films together, be open to adventurous sex, change your hair colour and wear something you don’t normally wear.

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“Be sexy in public – a man loves confidence, so show some butt and cleavage. If you’re a conservative plain Jane, he will likely run.

“You need to role play, get in costumes, have sex in the back of a church or concert.

“Be risky and exciting and don’t ever be afraid to show public displays of affection.

“Learn his fantasies and you will keep him forever.

“Men watch porn for a reason. Being a bit like his own personal porn star will ensure he doesn’t run.”

Amy also recommends sharing phone passwords, and communicating openly when it comes to finances.

When it comes to the men she services, she says there are a list of common complaints they share about their partners.

Amy said: “I often hear ‘my wife doesn’t have sex with me anymore’, ‘I love my children but they ruined my intimacy’, ‘my wife’s boring and doesn’t have time for me’, and ‘my wife has no sex appeal, isn’t adventurous and isn’t risky’.

“Men always confide in me and 100 per cent of the time it is one of those reasons.

“The worst offences in a relationship that pushes a partner to cheat are lack of communication, excitement and fun in the bedroom.

You need to role play, get in costumes, have sex in the back of a church or concert

“Having no sex at all is a deal breaker.

“Partners that don't communicate their sexual fantasies often feel secluded when they should be included if possible.

“You should always make time for each other no matter how busy your life is and don't be afraid to get crazy in the bedroom or even invite a third member to help spice things up.”

Despite her line of work, Amy has been cheated on herself in the past.

She said: “My husband cheated on me with a much younger woman. A few of my friends spotted him out on multiple occasions.

“For a while I felt terrible but I realised I didn’t need him. I didn’t blame myself – but I should have gotten out sooner.

“I started OnlyFans to spice up our sex lives. It turned him on but he became jealous very quickly.

“If a boyfriend or husband were to cheat on me again, I couldn’t care less.

“I’m confident, sexy and adventurous. I’m a man’s kind of woman – I like beer and hot wings, and I’m not afraid to get dirty.

“I work out hard and stay on top of my upkeep – eating a low carb diet, working out with weights, jogging and yoga, and of course cosmetic surgery here and there to improve flaws and give a confidence boost.

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“I’m so confident after my first marriage – nothing can bring me down.

“Self-confidence, being able to step outside of your comfort zone sexually, and communication will result in a happy, healthy marriage – and maybe a bit of porn as well!”

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