DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE been in a gay relationship with a man for four months and asked him if I was number one in his life. He would only say maybe I will be.

Things are going well between us but I have never felt I am his top priority. He says a female friend of his, and I, are equal in his life.

This leaves me full of doubt about whether I am as special to him as he is to me.

I am 26, he’s 25 and he’s the first person I truly care for. I want someone who feels the same. Am I overreacting?

DEIDRE SAYS: Some folk are cautious about expressing feelings and committing – but maybe that’s better that than the types who swear undying passion after a fortnight and are out of your life within the month.

Give this relationship some more time. If you feel no more loved and secure, it would make sense to free yourself to meet someone who wants the same level of commitment you do.

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